The fear of walking, traveling, or living alone is still common among women. The strategies adopted to cope with an unhealthy environment create a burden instead of providing safety. Feeling unsafe should not be the normal state of being.
This post explores how the Goddess Artemis’ virtues can contribute to awakening a true sense of safety and the ability to confidently be in this world. It is only by developing your sense of self and learning to honor your instincts that you can truly feel safe to walk around and make the best choices.
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The Goddess Artemis Archetype
She walks free, knowing that she is the land and the ruler of the forest.
Artemis is the Goddess of wild nature, hunting, and lunar wisdom in Greek Mythology. She has qualities that are considered masculine but expressed in a feminine way. It reminds us that we are all inherently masculine and feminine and that cultivating her virtues is vital for us to be autonomous and complete beings.
We will explore ten virtues of the Goddess Artemis that are essential to create an inner sense of safety and regain your power. These virtues are explored in depth in my online course ‘Honoring My Instincts: Divine Feminine for Modern Life’. I invite you to visit the course page to learn more, and I will be thrilled to have you as my student!
Goddess Artemis’ Virtues to Raise Your Sense of Safety and Confidence
1. Freedom
Feeling free is primal. Every being in nature has this innate feeling. Freedom is being able to express your authentic self and bring your gifts to the world, it is to live good experiences that make you feel fulfilled, and also to explore the beautiful world we are living in.
The fear of traveling alone, or living alone, is a consequence of a society tolerant of abuse, that tries to cope with unhealthy scenarios by controlling this innate feeling and birthright, especially in the case of women. This is an inversion of values.
The existence of places where it is not safe to walk alone, as a woman, reflects the normalization of the abuse of feminine energy. This creates a mindset reinforced by unfortunate experiences that crystallize this situation as reality. Family and culture condition growing children to conform to this pattern as the way things are.
Notice that the gender-related fears women have are a direct result of this conditioning. I’m not saying that you should expose yourself to dangerous circumstances. But you can learn how to create the best circumstances for yourself without limiting the expression of your soul. That’s true freedom.
You can start to change your mindset and create a new reality by meditating about what you like to do, to see, to experience on this planet, despite the premises and conditions. As a result, you will get in touch with what really fulfills you and realize what you did not or have not allowed yourself to experience because of gender-related fears.
Then, in alignment with your Higher Self, imagine how you could fulfill these desires in the highest and best way, and the insights will start to flow. As you release the fears and wounds, you will be able to co-create with the universe fulfilling experiences of freedom, and discovering in practice that it is all about your point of attraction. This is empowerment! Moreover, your change of vibration will positively impact the collective.
2. Autonomy
Autonomy is the ability to be your own guide, and true autonomy is possible with maturity and self-responsibility.
It means assuming that you create your reality despite the consequences, allied with the desire to create your life your way. Autonomy comes from a strong sense of self in alignment with your Higher Self.
3. Self-Defense
You don’t necessarily have to do this physically, although this instinct should be in place without shame. Self-defense is about setting boundaries, not being ashamed to say “no” and putting yourself first, because this is the healthiest thing you can do. Remember that you are not responsible for other people’s opinions and reactions to your attitude of self-respect.
Practice setting your intentions for the day, and in situations when you feel threatened, pay attention to your reactions because this gives you clues about where you need to heal your natural instinct of self-defense. The greatest reward is when you notice that your energy naturally wards off predatory energies, without any effort. This comes from a deep sense of worth and a recognition of your sacred place in the universe, embodied with the power of your intention.
4. Personal Space
Take care of your sacred space. This includes your home, your workspace, and also intangible spaces such as your inner world and emotional availability.
Trust when you feel it is time to say “no”, to leave, to not allow someone in your life, in your home, in your circle.
Being conditioned to be a people pleaser damages this natural instinct, so it can be necessary to rebuild the discernment of what you should or should not allow in your space, along with the courage to set boundaries.
Your body is your most sacred personal space. It is natural and healthy to care about who accesses you and set proper boundaries. This will reflect in your self-esteem, in your sense of freedom to enjoy life, and will enhance your sense of autonomy.
5. Assertiveness
When you need to get things done, being clear and focused will give you efficiency. It will, in turn, make your life easier and increase your sense of pride. Assertiveness has a big role in manifestation, and maintaining this energy generates a growing sense of fulfillment.
Assertiveness is also related to setting boundaries because it will help you to get rid of unnecessary energies between you and your goals. Stick to your values and decide what is best for you despite external opinions, and it will bring you satisfaction and protection.
6. Connection with Nature
You will realize that the connection with nature is self-connection. It gives you grounding and a sense of unity with all living things.
Nature helps you remember who you are. It empowers you and makes you feel safe. Being in nature is one of the best ways to regulate our Nervous System and be in connection to Source Energy.
7. Connection with Animals
Animals help us remember how to honor our instincts. They do not have a social facade or care about what others will think: they are honest and spontaneous, and their behavior has harmony and beauty. They also teach us to be present.
8. Lunar Wisdom
The Goddess Artemis’ self-confidence and assertiveness are deeply rooted in her connection with who she is, which is expressed by her role as a representative of the moon’s wisdom and the knowledge of feminine energy.
9. Sacredness of Childbirth
The Goddess knows the secrets of the feminine, including how sublime the expression of creative power is in the act of giving birth. The attunement to our wombs and feminine power creates an inner sense of safety and keeps the connection with our bodies, energetic fields, and feelings. Being in tune with our own guidance system is protection.
10. Sisterhood
The Goddess is so in touch with herself that she can see the truth of other women. Being compassionate with our own “mistakes” creates space to be compassionate with other women’s “confusions”. Not being ashamed of yourself allows you not to shame another woman. To put yourself first lets you see the right other woman has to stand for herself and set boundaries, without even knowing her circumstances. Recognizing your sovereignty creates space for collective healing.
Do not conform to unhealthy circumstances, but learn to create for yourself the best circumstances. This is empowerment!
Artemis is the woman connected with her instinctive life who walks free around the world. Her self-knowledge, embodiment, and healthy boundaries are energetic protection.
In alignment with your Higher Self, you can also identify the best choices, stand for yourself, and co-create positive experiences.
As we move from external conditioning to divine alignment, we rebirth what has always been ours. ❤️
I invite you to watch my Goddess Artemis, ‘The Wild Woman’, from my album ‘One Goddess’ and get inspired:
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Take care! ❤️
Credits for the images in this post: 1. [featured image] statue of goddess Diana/Artemis in the Louvre Museum from Pixabay; 2. woman with open arms in the fields by petig from Pixabay; 3. pilot checking directions by Poli from Pixabay; 4. woman in self-defense pose by klimkin from Pixabay; 5. woman and clouds by Pexels from Pixabay; 6. archery woman from Pixabay; 7. woman walking in nature by Pezibear from Pixabay; 8. woman and dog by Pexels from Pixabay; 9. moon and trees by susan-lu4esm from Pixabay; 10. pregnant woman by stocksnap from Pixabay; 11. three women by jonny_joka from Pixabay.
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